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The Mental Load in Relationships: How to Share It Without More Fights

Feeling like you’re the one who keeps track of everything at home? From appointments to groceries, the invisible mental load can quietly drain your energy and cause tension in relationships. This post looks at what the mental load really is, how it affects couples, and how to start sharing it without turning it into another argument.

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October 31, 2021
Ways for Women To Overcome Imposter Syndrome
Have you ever had that voice in your head speak, sometimes even scream at you? Saying things like:“What are you doing?” “Who do you think you are? You can’t do that”“People will make fun of you”“You aren’t that good at that, so just drop it”
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October 25, 2021
How to Develop Self-Trust
 Create the space and time to slow down, listen to your gut and allow that to help redirect your focus on YOU. It is not about perfection. It is about honoring yourself as you are… with all your glorious flaws! The more you practice these things, the more you will believe in them and the more you will learn to trust and love all the parts of you.
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October 25, 2021
Identifying Self-sabotaging Behaviors
Self-sabotage happens when there’s fear and insecurity, when we think deep down that we are not deserving of good things, and good people in our life.
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September 22, 2021
5 Ways To Truly Care For Yourself
Above all, be gentle with yourself. This is a process, a journey, one where we will hit detours, some initiated by us, some initiated by others. Detours are part of the journey as well, so enjoy it all, process it all and keep going.
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August 30, 2021
The Certainty of Uncertainty in Life and Relationships
We try to control the uncontrollable looking for security and comfort and safety. The truth is that we can never escape or avoid uncertainty. It is part of the adventure, and it is part of the fear. 
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August 27, 2021
5 Tips to Thrive in the Midst of Loss and Grief
Change impacts us. Change changes us. The process of letting go is a necessary part of living. We are impacted by those changes across our 4 continuums: physically, emotionally, cognitively and spiritually. This perpetual state of grieving where we have gains and losses regularly is a part of life.
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July 27, 2021
How To Embrace and Trust Uncertainty
Some of us are most content and blissful when in our routine. We enjoy knowing exactly what we believe in, what to expect and where we are going. Change, on the other hand, sends us into a tailspin! Even when we know something isn’t working anymore, we stick to it, to the familiar, because the unknown is too scary!
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July 27, 2021
Does Your Relationship Have These Green Flags?
Identifying healthy traits or green flags in a relationship is just as important as identifying toxic ones. Here are a few relationship green flags you should be looking out for.
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